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Welcome to Episode 183 of the Salsa Kings LIVE podcast
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In this episode, we talk about a question that often comes up when dancing socially: “What should I be looking at?” It’s a simple question, but it opens up a deeper conversation about connection, confidence, and personal choice in dance. Pablo and Andres break down the various aspects of eye contact during a dance, the importance of being yourself, and the natural, organic flow that comes with dancing. They remind listeners that there’s no perfect answer, just personal expression.
Key Points:
1. The Importance of Eye Contact in Dance
- The question “What should I be looking at?” comes up often when dancing, especially in close proximity to a partner.
- There’s no one-size-fits-all answer—eye contact in dance is personal and can depend on the connection you have with your partner.
- Sometimes you may want to look into your partner’s eyes, and other times, you might feel more comfortable looking elsewhere.
- The most important thing is to follow your feelings and enjoy the connection, rather than stressing about what’s “proper” or “correct.”
2. Trusting Your Instincts
- We encourage you to “go with the flow” and trust your instincts.
- Dance is not about doing everything “correctly”—it’s about what feels right in the moment.
- The key takeaway is that it’s okay to be yourself and not worry too much about “rules” when it comes to eye contact or where you look.
3. Connection Beyond Sight
- Touch and music are often more important senses to connect through during a dance than sight.
- Once you’ve connected through touch and the music, eye contact can deepen that connection, but it’s not always necessary.
- The experience of dancing isn’t just about how you look at each other, but also about the feelings you share and the atmosphere you create.
4. The Dance Floor as Life’s Gym
- Andres compares the dance floor to a gym, where dancers practice self-discovery and self-mastery.
- Like a gym, dancing helps you improve and discover more about yourself, and you can learn from every interaction.
- The dance floor becomes a space where you experiment, learn, and grow through both the dance and your partner.
5. The Role of Comfort and Respect
- Both dancers must be respectful of each other’s comfort zones. If at any point a dancer feels uncomfortable, they are encouraged to speak up.
- Andres emphasizes that it’s okay to say no and that communication is key to creating a positive dancing environment.
- Ultimately, the goal is to enjoy the dance and have a natural, comfortable connection with your partner.
6. Practice Makes Perfect
Each dance offers an opportunity to improve, and it’s okay to stumble or make mistakes along the way.
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